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SOBERTHOUGHTS


DO DIFFICULTIES MATTER?
Well, yes and no! Let’s explore this idea. Difficulties are an inevitable part of life, shaping our experiences and perspectives. This...
Evance Kamela
Feb 141 min read
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Reaping What We Sow: The Seeds of Our Future
Imagine a farmer meticulously planting seeds, nurturing them through seasons, and finally reaping the bounty of his labor. In much the...
Evance Kamela
Apr 26, 20242 min read
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Universal Principles for Life
Just as there are laws of physics, there are universal principles that, when followed, can significantly benefit us. These principles can...
Evance Kamela
Apr 19, 20242 min read
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CHANGE BEGINS WITHIN YOU
A friend recently shared a compelling story with me about an encounter he had with a Kabaza (bicycle taxi) operator. This operator, often...
Evance Kamela
Apr 12, 20242 min read
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THE SURPRISING PATH TO LOVING THE UNLOVABLE TASKS
Ever pondered when exactly we start loving something? Take any task as an example. Is love at first sight a real thing for activities and...
Evance Kamela
Apr 5, 20242 min read
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SEEING THROUGH THE LENS OF OUR DESIRES: A GUIDE TO SHAPING YOUR PERCEPTION
Have you ever experienced that uncanny moment when, after deciding on a new car, you suddenly see it everywhere? Or, when a unique piece...
Evance Kamela
Mar 29, 20242 min read
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IS PERFECTION OVERRATED?
This post delves into the transformative mindset shift from fearing loss to embracing the journey of mindfulness and action. It was...
Evance Kamela
Mar 22, 20241 min read
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Overcoming Negative Self-Talk
We each harbour an internal companion that converses with us, a kind of invisible friend. This companion, however, isn't one we can...
Evance Kamela
Mar 15, 20242 min read
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Ascending to Success: Navigating Life's Staircase
Picture this: You live in a building with four levels, and your apartment is on the topmost floor, shared with three other tenants. On a...
Evance Kamela
Mar 8, 20242 min read
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Cultivating Character: The Pathway to Personal Elevation
Character, defined as the unique mental and moral qualities that distinguish one individual from another, stands as a cornerstone in the...
Evance Kamela
Mar 1, 20242 min read
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Action First: Navigating Feelings Through Proactive Steps
Feelings—those intricate mixtures of positivity and negativity—accompany us throughout life. When we experience joy, we yearn to prolong...
Evance Kamela
Feb 23, 20242 min read
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Asking Goes a Long Way: Unlocking Life’s Cheat Codes
Asking for something often carries a negative connotation. It’s a task we’d rather avoid, yet some people seem to do it effortlessly. How...
Evance Kamela
Feb 14, 20242 min read
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Embracing Change: The Art of Letting Go
Discovering Growth Through Release We often find ourselves at crossroads, wondering whether we're truly good at something. The truth is,...
Evance Kamela
Feb 9, 20242 min read
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Is persistence the Answer?
If you accept to never give up and always persist in what you want you are bound to get what you want so the ideology goes. As a kid, you...
Evance Kamela
Oct 22, 20232 min read
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HOW TO EMBRANCE PROBLEMS
I know it’s a weird topic where one can easily be insensitive, dismissive or invalidate your experiences and emotions, but hey am just...
Evance Kamela
Sep 21, 20232 min read
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How Living is a Miracle
We often hear about miracles in the bible, and sometimes we see them in movies but that's it. We don't really appreciate our lives as...
Evance Kamela
Sep 19, 20232 min read
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